Aparna does not appear to be an intensely emotional or sentimental person, and she is often unaware of her own or other people's deeper feelings and emotional needs. Tears and tantrums bewilder her and make her very uncomfortable. Aparna Sen would rather settle differences by talking things out reasonably and rationally, but she tends to ignore or poke fun at any attempt to probe her own or others' inner depths. Aparna Sen avoids heavy, demanding emotional relationships and is wary of making personal commitments. She needs ample mental stimulation and feels close to people with whom she can share thoughts and intellectual interests. Conversation is very important to Sen. The strong, silent partner is not for her. Aparna Sen has a sympathetic nature and instinctively reaches out to people in need of help.
Sen also has a deeply ingrained tendency to want to improve or "fix" other people's lives, which can be annoying to the person who has no desire to be changed or "helped" in this way. For Aparna, affection and caring must be expressed in tangible acts of some kind. Aparna Sen possesses the gifts of tact, courtesy and consideration, and has a strong desire to please and understand her love partner. Because she values harmony so highly, Aparna Sen will compromise a great deal to avoid any discord or conflict in her relationships. Aparna does not like to dwell on controversial or emotional subjects and often tries to "smooth things over" or "sweep them under the rug". In love relationships, Aparna Sen wants an intellectual peer, an equal and a friend. She is attracted to people who have a certain finesse, delicacy and subtlety. Aparna Sen appreciates good manners and refinement and is not happy with coarseness or bluntness in a person. Aparna is attracted to foreigners, exotic places, traveling and people who can expand her horizons, teach her something, or show her places and worlds she has never experienced before.
Sharing a philosophy or ideal with her love partner is important to her. Moreover, Aparna Sen feels love and kinship for people everywhere, not only for her own family, nationality, or group. Finding similarities and making links between people from differing backgrounds or with different perspectives is a gift of hers. She is kindhearted and generous with both her money and her affections, and she is not happy if she has to budget or restrict herself in any way. Pettiness or stinginess is foreign to Aparna's nature and Aparna Sen feels most comfortable in an elegant, beautiful atmosphere.
Asceticism is not for Sen. Gracious and charitable, she enjoys sponsoring social events or cultural activities. Aparna Sen has an optimistic, friendly attitude towards others and tends to bring out the finer side of people. She is likely to fall in love with someone who is successful, noble and idealistic. She is very romantic, idealistic and imaginative about love relationships. Aparna Sen yearns for her "true love" or "soul mate" and may become disappointed in those who never quite live up to her dream image of the perfect lover.Sen frequently fantasizes about love and often falls in love with someone she can only love from afar. She may avoid making a definite personal commitment. Gentle and sensitive, Aparna Sen does not like to be approached in a very direct or aggressive manner. She is attracted to those with artistic or mystical inclinations. Aparna Sen treats others in an agreeable, affectionate and tactful way and freely shows her affection for them. Her circle of friends is likely to be large and Sen strives for the development of a strong community spirit.
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